What makes a sword, any sword effective? One could argue its size and weight, metallurgy and the list goes on. But at the end of the day, the primary function of a sword is to cut, thus its edge would make it most important (in my honest opinion).
I personally have never seen or been there for the aftermath of a real engagement, not many would have in today’s world, but from writings of samurai it is said that the edge of the sword becomes bent and chipped during combat. In this case, the katana is then hammered out and is given a very rough but usable edge by rubbing the blade along a sharpening stone. Once the engagement is over, the katana can be repaired by an expert blacksmith and the katana lives to fight another day, refreshed.
The human spirit is from what I can see, the same as that of the katana. both are damaged in battle, wether it is a physical altercation or not, both require maintenance during a rough patch and both ultimately need to be refurbished back into condition.
It could be that the edge of your sword is blunted and damaged from troubles at home or work. This is from what I have experienced, part of life. It is one thing to be told to suck it up but its finding the way to do so is what people have a hard time giving advice on. And you know what, neither do I.I cant give you what I don’t have. Everyone has to find their own way if you want it to be most effective for you. I am still trying to find my way to not just cope but excel.
We all need to find our little hammer and repair kit to bend our will back into place and cut a rough edge back on to get through the next phase of life. but the most important part is knowing when to go to the blacksmith and have your blade completely restored. R&R!!!!! Without it you will be as useless as the bent, chipped and blunt instrument you swing.
21st Century Ronin 